Sometimes the person that is going through the most, fades to the black and get noticed the least.
It’s the classic philosophy of the squeaky tire gets the oil.
The ones who have phenomenal coping skills, very rarely get asked…are you okay? Are you good…would you like a hug……just because.
We take for granted that they go above and beyond to make sure the world around them wears a smile but very seldom do others realize…they are just reflecting what they can’t. They are instructing the world around them of how they want to be loved…but noone is taking notes or even considering that they are just mirroring what they need and requesting by example.
I saw something under someone’s IG post the other day and it said something to the effect of “you inspire me..no serious. I was close to taking my life and your post immediately changed my mood and is now my motivation”.
People may not understand why I do what I do. They may see my blogs as an outlet or a hobby or just something to pass the time.
I once was in a dark place and no…I have never considered taking my life, but I can in some stages see how one could get there.
Its wonderful to know that someone else can relate and give you that extra push to know there is definitely a different scenery… if you just hold on for another day. I had God, my music, my family and online motivational words to give me the strength when I didn’t seem to acquire the appetite for it overnight.
If I am able to touch one person, make a difference for one day, I feel as if I am well on my way of God’s intended purpose for me.
You could never imagine who’s going through it. Smile at a stranger, don’t flip off that guy who cut you off, pay it forward….you never know when your fingerprint in someone’s life could literally be life or death.
As always, have a great week ~Kitty D 🦋🦋~